No, No, Yes!
- B.A Varlet
- Jul 24, 2024
- 3 min read
Fulbright Journey [1]

I am over the moon about the opportunity to expand my knowledge on one of the things I am most passionate about—#informationsecurity.
One of the hardest parts of this journey is securing letters of affiliation and letters of recommendation. It is one thing to believe in yourself, but it is another to have others believe in you as well. One thing I always advocate for is not taking rejection personally. Throughout your personal and professional life, you will be told "no" countless times. In fact, I believe that you are not making progress unless you have been rejected. It sounds counterproductive, but I believe it to be true.
Many people focus on the end goal: "I got the job!" or "I've been accepted into the program!" But what comes with that is the journey, and that journey usually includes hearing "I'm sorry to inform you" and "Unfortunately."
While looking for letters of affiliation, I was rejected dozens of times just to get one "yes." Those rejections, however, also came with suggestions and encouragement. Although those I reached out to could not offer me what I was looking for, their feedback and guidance led me in the right direction. All of this brought me one step forward in my #fulbright journey, and I am excited to see what other challenges and lessons I will learn along the way.
This process of seeking validation from others, while daunting, has also been incredibly enlightening. Each rejection taught me something new, whether it was about refining my approach, better articulating my vision, or simply building resilience. It reminded me that every "no" is not a setback but a step towards the ultimate "yes." It is a reminder that the path to success is rarely straightforward but filled with twists and turns that shape us into more determined and insightful individuals.
As I reflect on my experiences, I see that this journey is about more than just achieving a goal. It is about growth, perseverance, and the relentless pursuit of one's passions. Information security, with its constant evolution and critical importance , is a field that requires this kind of dedication and resilience. It demands that we stay ahead of the curve, continuously learning and adapting to new challenges.
Navigating this journey has also reinforced the importance of community and support. The encouragement and advice I received, even from those who couldn't provide a letter, were important in my development. They reminded me that we are never truly alone in our pursuits. There is always someone willing to offer a helping hand, a piece of advice, or a word of encouragement. This sense of community is what makes the journey worthwhile, knowing that we are part of something larger than ourselves.
As I continue on my #fulbright journey, I am filled with anticipation and excitement for what lies ahead.
Ultimately, this journey is a testament to the power of perseverance and the value of every experience, whether it be a resounding success or a humbling rejection. It is a reminder that the path to achieving our dreams is paved with both triumphs and setbacks, each contributing to our growth and development. And as I look ahead, I am confident that every step I take, every challenge I face, will bring me closer to becoming the best version of myself in the field of #informationsecurity.
The excitement of this journey lies not just in reaching the destination but in embracing every moment along the way. It is about the pursuit of knowledge, the thrill of discovery, and the unwavering belief that, with each effort, we are contributing to something greater than ourselves. As I move forward, I do so with a lessen fear of the word "no", and a spirit ready to take on whatever comes next.
-Varlet
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